Thomas “Tommy” Anthony Pacello, Jr. was a native Memphian, doting father, pretty fantastic husband, a friend to all, a confidant to the lucky, a hesitant attorney, city planner by training, audiophile, killer home chef, owner of the best head of hair this side of the Mississippi, Star Wars nerd, avid outdoorsman, handiest of handymen, and all around great dude. We lost him in November of 2020 to pancreatic cancer.